Zodiac Sign Virgo

Virgo is the sixth astrological sign in the zodiac and it is present in the third quadrant of the southern hemisphere. It takes 30 degrees of the zodiac circle and span between 150 degrees to 180 degrees. The sun transits this area on average between August 23 – September 22 in the southern sky. It is an earth sign fitting perfectly between Taurus and Capricorn. Mercury is their ruling planet.
In Latin Virgo means virgin and the people born in this period of time are called as ‘Virgos’ or ‘Virgoans’. This constellation is discovered by Ptolemy in the 2nd century, and contains ‘Spica’ which is one of the brightest stars in the night sky. It is the second largest constellation in the Sky after Hydra. This constellation has 20 stars with known planets and out of which 15 are known and named stars.
Virgo is often depicted as a woman holding wheat in her hand or the ‘ear of grain’. The history of this constellation is traced back from the Golden age in the Greek mythology which was marked by prosperity, peace, everlasting spring and humans never knowing old age. It is associated with Astraea, a heavenly virgin, who lived in the silver age which wasn’t prosperous as humans no longer honoured the gods the way they used to in the golden age. She was the last immortal human being to live with humans and warned the entire human race about the dangers of leaving behind the ideals of their predecessors. Later, when the bronze and iron age followed, human started wars among themselves and the goddess left earth and flew to the heavens to escape from the evils of the mankind.
Overview:
DATES |
August 23 – September 22 |
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SYMBOL |
The Virgin |
RULER PLANET |
Mercury |
BASIC COLOUR |
Tan, Grey & Warm yellow |
MODE AND ELEMENT |
Mutable Earth |
LUCKY METAL |
Bronze |
COMPATIBILITY |
Pisces and Cancer |
HOUSE |
Sixth |
LUCKY NUMBERS |
5, 14, 15, 23 and 32 |
TAROT CARD |
The Hermit |
WORTHY DAYS |
Wednesday |
LUCKY GEM |
Sapphire (blue), Lapis Lazuli |
Basic Personality
Virgos are known for being perfectionists but that can be misunderstood as their strength because they may feel insecure as they aren’t really perfect. They are obsessed with their own image and being perceived as perfect. They are introverts and very deep personalities who have a hard time to express themselves.
It is difficult to know what they are really thinking and feeling, using this they can derive self worth, feel vulnerable, important and worthy of their existence. They are smart, intelligent and have a strong character but at the same time may have anxiety issues. They prefer conservative, well organised things and approach in life.
They constantly need to be appreciated for their work. They usually come off as rational to the people they know, perhaps a bit more than they really are. They like to organize everything and even everyone’s lives around them and can easily take responsibility for the consequences that are caused by their actions. They usually create strict rules and regulations but that doesn’t necessarily mean that they follow them for themselves.
These natives pay attention towards minor things and often get stuck in the details. , Just so that they can fix the mess, they often seek out mess in small things that can be physical, interpersonal or emotional. They feel happy to make an impact or at least try to make an impact in little things, so that they can feel acknowledged.
They are over critical to the matters that can be of least concern for others. These natives have a deep sense for humanity which makes them one of the most careful sign in the entire zodiac. They never leave things for chances, love to set goals and check things off from their ‘to do list’. When in trouble they use sarcasm as a defence mechanism.
Strengths:
Loyal, Modest, Kind, Compassionate, humble, practical, mentally agile, analytic, quick learners, adaptable, skilful, hard working and helping.
The most basic strength Virgos have is rooted in their mental health. They are mentally agile, analytic and quickly learn and adapt things with a practical approach. The natives born in Virgo zodiac are very hard working and skilful which helps them not only to be creative but also get the things moving. When it comes to their personal life they are quite modest and compassionate towards their close ones and never think twice before raising a helping hand to the people in need. Once they are attached to someone they tend to be overly concerned, devoted and loyal for that person.
Weaknesses:
Over critical, anxious, shy, worried, over thinking, over active, attention seeking and doubtful.
When it comes to weaknesses, Virgos have quite a few which are well rooted from their strengths. As these natives are over thinking regarding small things, they tend to get overly worried about things that may be of least importance for others. In order to be appreciated and feel important they need to prove their worth for which they have to seek people’s approval and attention. They are often anxious for most of the times which make them over active and doubtful. They usually aren’t shy when it comes to help others but to communicate with clarity is an issue for them.
Planetary Rulerships
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House of Mercury
Mercury is the ruler of two Zodiac signs Gemini and Virgo. Virgo was thought to be the night home of Mercury, which is a careful earth sign that allows Mercury to express and perform its fastest and simplest tasks. Those born with Mercury in Virgo will probably find that many of the abilities come to them naturally and easily which can include being analytical, intelligent and attentive. As their ruler is mercury, they tend to have a sharp mind and can take responsibilities for the consequences of their actions and choices.
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Jupiter Damage
Virgo is in the polarity with the water sign of Pisces. Hosted by Jupiter, Pisces loves to explore the emotional and spiritual realm. Naturally intelligent and comfortable with risks, this Jupiter dominated Zodiac sign differs from Mercury dominated Virgo, which needs to plan, analyze, and determine what is useful. Jupiter is a brave planet, with no limitations of chance and philosophy trapped in a well-functioning and orderly world of virgins, who loves things like that.
Jupiter in the Mercury symbol will have to somehow compensate for this “injury”, which may mean that the natives born with this placement may tend to increase their attention to detail, otherwise their hopeful and philosophical side may feel trapped under strict standards. This may or may not happen to them but will surely challenge those born with these standards in order to balance perfection and the need to remain open to testing and growth into opportunities.
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The Fall of Venus
Venus is said to have been elevated by the ancient astronomers to Pisces, where it was able to express its poetic, artistic, and pleasure-seeking qualities. When it came to the opposite sign of Virgo, Venus was said to be in the autumn, which may not be as powerful in potential for evolution as it can be, but still put the planet’s energy in its comfort zone.
Venus seeks love, connection, and attraction, but Virgo, as a symbol of the cool and dry earth, may be too shy and constructed as a structure to allow Venus’ energy to flow freely. This may be expressed in the natives as the need to take longer to warm up and trust those they love. It can also occur as a tendency to set high expectations of consideration and perfection in those in relationships. Those with this condition may need to stop being more cautious and accept more of the “mistakes” of others in order to allow love, to creep into their lives. Indigenous people with Venus in Virgo benefit from being less self critical and selfish.
Elements, Cardinal and Seasons
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Season
The Virgo season begins on August 23, marking the beginning of the last summer in the Northern Hemisphere. This is the time of year when the heat of the sun and the light begin to diminish, and the days begin to get shorter..
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Earth Element
The element of Virgo is the earth which represents the very structure of the universe, and without it nothing can stand in the way of material things. Earth is the heaviest and strongest object, which astronomers consider to be the densest form of matter. Virgo’s relationship to efficiency, skill, and strategy are all similar to the structure and impact of the earth.
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Mutable Mode
Virgo is the second of the four dynamic and mutable zodiac signs, all of which hold the fundamental power of change at the end of the four periods. Virgo season is the end of summer, when air starts to cool off and becomes a base for the upcoming month. This mixed and varied quality of the season is in the natural roots of Virgo’s flexible structure.
Virgo House Ruler
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Sixth House
In the modern divination system of the Twelve Alphabet, each zodiac sign dominates one of the twelve houses in the birth chart. This renaming was created by psychologists to match the symbols associated with related house titles. Virgo was assigned a sixth house for health, service, and daily activities, as Virgo’s worldly belongings and hygiene are accompanied by concerns for this house. As Virgo is ruled by the communications planet, it invites the small Mercury signature to the sixth house.
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First House Perspect
In a traditional astrology study, the ruler of the planet Virgo, Mercury, was said to have found its “happiness” in the first house of identity in the birth chart. This house is associated with our bodies and sense of purpose, symbolizes the union of spirit and story to create a unique creature on earth.
In ancient astronomy, the level of the rising sign was found inside the house of the first sign, dividing it into the upper part of the horizon, and the lower part below it at the time of our birth.
The magic and its mysteries are attributed to the god Hermes, who is associated with Mercury, enabling the planet to exert a powerful force as a bridge between the heavens and the earth from the original home.
Compatibility With :
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Friends & Family Members
Virgos are very trustworthy as friends because they are very careful while analysing people and think carefully before they act. They are often very careful about whom they associate with. They are very focused on the company they keep. They want people who are compassionate and kind. They tend to draw in other people who are willing and analytical. Virgos often enjoy being among those who are equally interested in self-improvement and intelligent inquiry. They are especially good at giving advice and problem solving. They consider the feelings of others as they are very sensitive to the emotions. Sometimes they may be too judgmental. This is because their inner monologue is always moving. They are always looking for signs of hypocrisy or injustice. On the other hand, this gives them greater insight and the ability to identify flaws in a concept or character. However, it may also leave them feeling hopeless and indifferent.
People born with their Sun in Virgo are very dedicated to their family and care for the elderly and the sick. They understand the culture and the importance of responsibility, they are proud of their upbringing and everything that made their mind rule as it really is. They give proper time to their family and give their kids good advices in their time of need.
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Partners: Love and Relationships
Virgo compatibility with other zodiac signs is largely based on the ability of their partner to give them all the love they need to start feeling safe and open enough to show their soft, vulnerable heart. They usually have direct statements of love, but intimacy reveals all the beauty of their emotional expression. Virgo will choose a stable relationship rather than entertainment, casual couples, unless they are one, using its beauty and superficial communication to win hearts without investing their money. Methodically each Virgo seems to have an equation in its mind that its partner should follow.
It is rare for them to have many intimate feelings with different people, because they need to feel important to someone and find real physical pleasure in order to give themselves completely to someone else. The sign of Virgo is easily connected to the image of the virgin, but the fact is that their level is variable and their need for change often overcomes their self-imposed boundaries and moral boundaries when it comes to intimacy. Trust needs to be built on Virgo, gradually and patiently, and each partner they have in life has the opportunity to be nurtured and cared for but only if they provide enough to deserve special Virgo treatment.
Career Options
Virgo’s intelligent and thoughtful in nature which makes them particularly suited for the tasks where they need to analyze data and focus on project or service details. Although they are earthy and reliable, they are also flexible, so their operations need to have some flexibility to develop and implement changes and processes that lead to better performance. At the same time, their sense of urgency and orderliness are very important to them, so regular activities that involve regularity and consistency help them to focus on the task at hand. Workplaces where they help organize or can be part of a well-managed team with clear and visible duties, will help them to use their skills effectively. They are likely to find dirty, crowded, and unsanitary workplaces becoming a stumbling block and a nuisance, so they may work to create more efficient work and living space for others. These people will surely need to develop this kind of harmonious environment in order to feel calm and satisfied. Simple and intelligent, Virgo has many abilities.
The sharp minds of Mercurial, those born under the sign of the Virgin may be involved in the analysis and calculations in nature. They may be involved in the development of formulas for collecting numbers, as well as designing systems that filter and evaluate the meaning and effects of raw data. Based on these qualities the well suited career options for Virgos may include:
• Accountants.
• Speech Therepists.
• Language Translators.
• Writers and Editors.
• Fashion Designers.
• Musicians.
• Nutritionists.
• Food Critics.
• Health Care Personnel.
• Teachers.
• Book Keepers Etc…
Administered by Mercury, Virgo has a vocabulary and language skills, and may enjoy translation, language, and speech therapy. They are also more likely to write well, so they will make good writers, copy editors, and facts checkers, as there are no details that will not be seen by them. There is a strong possibility that those born under the Virgin symbol will make great teachers and mentors. This can be in many ways, from computer programs to commercials and crafts. Virgos are likely to have a clear, useful, and systematic way of disseminating information, and they will seek perfection from their readers also.
The Virgin’s sensitive nature will find a home in the world of professional criticism. By liking nutritious food and quality, they can make excellent food safety inspectors and leading food critics. They may also be able to transform their keen senses and interests in order to explore the world of fashion, art, literature, and music. Getting their thumbs up will be a huge success, as they are often skilled artisans, painters, and craftsmen, who produce works of beauty and much detail. Their creations may have a twist of ingenuity, or help, like practical art.
Health
In the ancient times, the entire zodiac was painted on the human body, where Virgo dominates the digestive system, intestines, and spleen. Symbol of the earth, Virgo is associated with melancholic temperament, which was understood to be cold and dry. The melancholic temperament was thought to be connected to the spleen, which filters out blood and supports the immune system. This structure was also considered to be connected with the symbolic body that ancient physicians called “black bile”, which is cold and unstable, where toxic substances could accumulate and could not be adequately cleaned.
Under the rule of Mercury, the Virgos body shares a Gemini connection with the nervous system digestive tract. Those born of the Virgin in their birth charts, have soft digestive systems that can be easily removed due to anxiety and stress disorders. This is said to add another melancholic layer to Virgos life, making the constitution doubly prone to dehydration, obesity, and tissue congestion. As a result, Virgo may be one of the world’s most delicate people, requiring a lot of concentration, nutrition and cardiovascular protection. This may be the reason why Virgo is drawn to health care. In the same way that the natives of Virgo need to plan their lives and be useful, the digestive system reflects this function in a physical way. We can see this in the way we process nutrients so that they are distributed throughout the body.
Virgo Man Personality Overview
Virgo is the sixth sign of the zodiac and are forever the butt of jokes for being so picky and critical . Virgos, more than any other sign, were born to serve, and it gives them great joy. They are industrious, methodical and efficient. The sense of duty borne by these folks is considerable, and it ensures that they will always work for the greater good.
Though Virgos are seldom celibate, they often keep their personal identity intact throughout their lives. This composure is virginal in nature, shows itself in the lives of Virgos through a love of all that is “natural” and a certain purity of spirit that keeps Virgos self-sufficient and self-contained, at least on the surface. Virgos are sensitive to their surroundings and are apt to feel awkward easily.They are generally reticent when faced with anything or anyone new. However, once they feel comfortable, they can talk up a storm. Virgo’s symbol is sometimes shown as a female carrying a sheaf of wisdom, representing the harvesting of wheat at the time of year of the Virgo (late summer).
Virgos are an asset in the workplace as they can be counted on to get things right the first time, every time — and no detail will be overlooked. They are also balanced and fair in their assessments in keeping with the Mutable Quality assigned to this sign.
Virgo is ruled by Mercury as portrayed in ancient Roman mythology. A Virgo’s brain is in overdrive most of the time, which is why these folks get so much done. Those born under this sign are also able communicators and use their mental acuity to maximum advantage. All of this brainpower can make Virgos prone to scepticism, and can even lead to the kind of over-think that surely leads to overkill. The Element associated with Virgo is Earth, and in keeping with that, most Virgos are grounded, salt-of-the-earth types.
Virgins do enjoy material possessions and are picky about what they bring into their lives. They are sometimes called self-centred, but it’s really more of a desire to surround themselves with what’s right — for them. This knack for discernment also serves Virgos well in business, where their decisions are usually dead-on. Those born under this sign are eminently sensible and use their critical eye well. While Virgos can be worrywarts, they do their best to temper these impulses. However, if this nervousness goes unchecked, it can lead to hypochondria, that ugly skeleton in the Virgo’s closet. For that reason, Virgos are extremely health conscious, to the point of being storehouses of information on diet and hygiene. Many Virgos even choose a health or medical career so they won’t miss a beat.
The benefits of exercise are far more important to Virgo than the process itself. That’s why Virgos are likely to time themselves on their runs and get in those 300 sit-ups every day. When it comes to the game of love, Virgos are able to loosen up somewhat and are devoted to their lovers, even if they can be a bit jealous. Since Virgo rules the intestines, worried Virgos need to be wary of bowel upsets. Soothing relief often comes in the way of earth tones, which is why Virgos like to be surrounded by shades of tan and a warm yellow.
His Other Traits
Virgo men are full of kindness and patience. Indeed, you can consider them as the most hardworking zodiac sign. Virgo man always has big goals and is ready to take the challenges in life. He works for his dream and is prepared to do the hard work needed. He is the best person in the workplace and will be the best boss and employee. The date of birth of Virgo can be August 23 to September 22. This zodiac sign symbolizes young Maiden with a sheaf of wheat. The personality of a Virgo man is practical and systematic. They usually have a practical approach to life.
Hardworking and intelligent – A Virgo man has a very realistic approach toward life and would like to work in various segments. He is hardworking and intelligent at the same time. He can be the best problem solver and believes in living an adventurous life. They have a calculative mind and prefer to think from the heart only in some situations.
Virgo men have excellent intuitions in life and can use them to find the deceitful individuals in life. Due to their sensitive nature, they prefer to avoid getting interference from so many people. It would help if you adequately dealt with them because they will never forget anything, and forgiveness is not on their list. Virgo men rapidly remove toxic people from life and make life more meaningful with good people.
If you are the right person, Virgo Man can be very helpful. Their thinking process is full of confidence about their decision and thoughts. Therefore, they prefer to avoid following or listening to the advice of others in any matter. They would do what is right in their own opinion. After making a particular life decision, they will prefer to stick with it and follow the same. After deciding, they will stick with the same idea and always like to keep their plan the same.
His Relationships
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with People
Virgo men don’t like to get defeated, and this rule is also applicable to the relationship. Therefore, you should never try to beat them in something when trying to be in a relationship with them. Ensure you don’t humiliate them on any occasion because they never forget and forgive. Don’t give them any challenges, particularly in the general public. Virgo men prefer to be in the company of people full of confidence.
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Sexual Relationships
Virgo men like everything to be perfect, which also applies to their sex life. Therefore, you can expect to have excellent results from them. Consequently, you should be comfortable enough with the Virgo man.
Remember that Virgo men are also hardworking and have everything a woman wants. They are always eager to prove themselves. You can get the best and most committed partner when dating a Virgo man. Virgo man wants to try something new in bed, and you should never hesitate. Virgo men are always down to earth. Therefore, you can expect a pleasing experience with them in bed.
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with a Love interest
You have to be the favorite of Virgo to get genuine feelings out of their heart. They are loyal and loving and prefer to be gentle most of the time. In a relationship, they are honest and wise. Virgo man has the solution to most of the problems in life. Falling in love with the Virgo can take some time because they slowly fall in love. They can also be conservative at some point in time.
Virgo man can be beautiful to a partner who can flirt and be aggressive. You should always be open and diplomatic in your relationship with a Virgo man.
It would help if you remembered that Virgo men prefer to be practical and logical. Therefore, you should put good values in the relationship above everything. Show honesty in the relationship with a Virgo man, and he will start craving your company.
Virgo men have naturally attracted girls who have good hobbies and are full of passion for life. For example, you can be a nature lover or a health love. You are also passionate about learning something in life. Virgo men are brilliant and prefer to stay in the company of girls with such virtues.
Virgo men are very clear about passion and romance. They will be utterly devoted to their partner after committing. Therefore, you should let him make the promise first, and then you will see the most romantic side of the Virgo man. Virgo males will pay close attention to every detail when dealing with their partner. They will prefer to give you beautiful gifts. Virgo man will like to know more and more about your likes and dislikes when he is interested in you. He will also mention you to his friends and relatives.
His Positives and Negatives
Positives
- Hardworking and intelligent, you can consider them as the most hardworking zodiac sign,
- A Virgo man has a very realistic approach toward life
- He can be the best problem solver
- He is the best person in the workplace and will be the best boss and employee
- Virgo men have excellent intuitions in life
- In a relationship, they are honest and wise.
- Virgo men are brilliant and prefer to stay in the company of girls with such virtues.
Negatives
- Some specific weaknesses are also there in the men with Virgo as a zodiac sign. However, Virgo male has a defect that is attached to their intellectuals. It means that men from the Virgo zodiac sign always prefer to be perfect and want to achieve more. Due to the habit of being perfect, they always have very high expectations from others, including their life partner.
- Virgo males always give date preference to a woman who is trying very hard and setting up a good level of standards in every manner.
- He will hardly be ready to compromise with anything.
- Some observers also think that Virgo males are full of knowledge, but they lack creativity.
Virgo Woman Personality Overview
Practical, modest, loving, intelligent and helpful, the female born under the Zodiac Sign Virgo are reliable and observant. They bring stability and order, making the people around them feels comfortable in their company. Besides, there are some other characteristics that the Virgo female are likely to possess. Read on to find out what they are.
These ladies can be described as charming, witty, realistic, dedicated, and gentle and perfectionists. But at the same time they do have a tendency to become restless, nervous and cranky. So it’s essential for them to stay focused in order to not get side-tracked.
The Virgo female’s greatest assets are their intelligence, analytical minds and excellent memory. They are logical thinkers who would take every detail into account before arriving at a decision. Therefore, they are good at settling disputes and make good business partners, analysts and strategists. They do have a softer side to their personalities. Although they may appear as strong-minded individuals, they are emotional and need to be well taken care of.
At first, they may seem quiet and introvert. However, the Virgo female seldom shy away from taking on challenges and proving their mettle with hard-work and determination. Their attention to detail and inability to ignore even the smallest faults contribute a lot to their success.
Perfectionists that they are, they tend to worry about every task, detail and chore, especially if they are in charge. Sitting idle and watching people do their jobs may be like a punishment for the Virgo female. They have to work! But on the downside, they often forget to take it easy and enjoy with friends and family. This can get really exhausting for them.
These female don’t get influenced easily as they wary of exposing their emotional vulnerability and possibility of getting hurt. Besides, one has to match their high standards to impress the perfection-seeking Virgo female. Hence, patience is the key if you want to make a lasting impression on a Virgo female’s mind.
A typical Virgo female is conservative and old fashioned, and sensation and experience are more important than emotion and fantasy to her. She walks with feet firmly on the ground, observes the people around her and takes into account every single detail.
Virgo women are known as the best caring personalities. They ultimately control their anger and hardly show their fiery side. Virgo woman is known as the perfect combination of beauty and brain because of their skills and calm nature. Yes, they possess exceptional skills when it comes to reasonably organizing things. She prefers to go into the details of things and explore them. She loves to find enjoyment in the order and efficiency of things.
Female Virgo is full of mindfulness and loves to do intellectual things. She can complete any work given to her at an academic level without any hassle. Female Virgo is quite passionate about the creative things in her life. She loves to create new things in life using her inspiration. She may look timid from her outer personality, but from the inside, she is a strong lady with a stable mindset.
You can also call a female Virgo to miss perfectionist because she likes to handle things excellently and complete the given task without any mistakes. She will be a perfect match for you if you love being in order and like an organized environment. She will work hard to make things perfect in life. It is also a potential reason she rarely gets satisfaction.
Her Relationships
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In Relationships
Virgo women will prefer a man for dating who is sensible. She loves—the masculine quality along with the responsibility. The person must be needed, clean, and well-defined in every possible way. She would love to be in the company of a man who has excellent patience and knows how to keep things tidy. She would love to find a dependable partner and give her some moral support. She loves the company of a man who is emotionally strong enough to handle things properly.
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with a Love interest
Virgo woman can be very romantic when she is committed to a relationship. She will spare time and prefer to stay with you. The next thing is showing love and care. She will make you feel exceptional in the relationship.
Female Virgo will open up with her loved ones and never prefer to hide something. The conversation is also a great way of showing love and interest; therefore, she can indulge in long conversations with you. Virgo women will show utter signs of love and care to their partners. The best part is that she will never give up because of her strong willpower. She will always show love and passion.
Virgo women prefer to take things in a prolonged manner when falling in love. They are pretty shy in nature and conservative. They are on high alert regarding their heart and feelings. You should take the initiative and show honesty to make them fall in love. Despite doing this flirt, you can show them open-mindedness and express your feelings. It will attract more, and they might fall in love with you.
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Sexual Relationships
Never forget that Virgo women prefer everything ideally, and you must show them complete hygienic conditions. They always want to have complete hygiene in the bedroom. You should not have dirty nails and unkempt attire. To turn her on, you must work hard on your personality. Make sure that you are neat & clean and everything is tidy.
Her Positives and Negatives
Positives
- Virgo females are dedicated to their passion and love.
- You can see that they can conquer any situation with the help of their analytical thinking.
- They do not believe in the shortcuts of life and prefer to work hard to achieve their achievements.
- Creativity is their plus point, which they can use to make their goals easy to achieve.
- They believe in practical aspects of life and never do day Dreaming.
- Perfectionism is always there in the life of work of women.
- They are brilliant people who know how to handle things perfectly.
- They prefer to get regular improvements in their life. They also can find items in an ideal way.
Negatives
- Virgo women will change the things which they touch for the sake of perfection.
- It is so because they always work hard to find the items most accurately. Perfection can be an obsession for them in life.
- They prefer to think alone and hardly take any action, even regarding love and romance.
- They are very demanding when it comes to their families. Even minor issues can grab their attention, and they prefer to handle things most accurately.
Her Other Traits
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Introvert and Mysterious
Virgo females are entirely mysterious, and it is tough to make any judgment about them. Nobody can tell or understand your feelings because they are wholly introverted and reserved personalities. You will notice that they remain in their shell until they feel comfortable. Most of the time, they are timid in starting conversations with strangers or relationships. It will help if you put in the arduous effort to judge whether she is interested in you.